Hello and Welcome!
My journey to becoming a coach and sharing my passion for spiritual growth and energetic healing and transformation has been a long one with lots of twists and turns. But I’ll do my best to keep it short enough that you don’t get bored, yet still allow you to gain an understanding of who I am, and why I do what I do.
I am convinced that every one of us came into this world knowing our true purpose and fully equipped with everything we need to fulfill it.
I remember one time when I was about 6 or 7-years-old, my father asked what I wanted to be when I grew up. Without hesitation, I responded, “A doctor. A brain surgeon.” My dad was clearly amused. “A brain surgeon, huh?”
“Yes Daddy, peoples brains are broken and they need to be fixed so they can be happy. I have to operate on their brains so they can get better.”
Was brain surgery my divine purpose? No, it wasn’t, and although my 7-year-old mind couldn’t articulate it properly, I knew in my soul – that my purpose was to help ‘people get better.’
I was always drawn to the mystical and magical. I was fascinated by angels and fairies, witches, healers, medicine men, magicians, and sorcerers. All of it. As a teen, I started reading everything I could get my hands on about miracles, magic, plant medicine, spells, spell-breaks, etc. I also studied different religions like Ifa, Santeria, Voodoo, and Wicca. I learned a lot but none of it really clicked for me.
I knew I was here for the purpose of helping people, but “how” kept eluding me. In the meantime, life went on…
The darkest moments in our lives give us clues to what our purpose work here on earth really is.
Pain into purpose
I have survived: divorce and starting over broke and alone with an infant, being robbed of my car at gunpoint by a couple I stopped to help, being sexually assaulted in a bathroom in a public place, a near-fatal car accident (my doctors told me I would never walk unassisted again), PTSD, clinical depression, anxiety, the deaths of my mother and my granddaughter, and the loss of my job, home, and everything I owned. Twice.
Through all of my “dark nights”, I was committed to healing myself. I believed it was possible and I was determined to find out how to heal my own “broken brain”.
I went on a mission and signed up for every course, watched every video or webinar, and read everything I could find on healing, mindset, and spirituality. I started this website in 2011 with the intention to share what I was learning. As I worked on myself, I began to understand that my pain which I’d always kept hidden is my purpose. I was put here to show up as the powerful woman God created me to be. To share my story, shine my light, and be in service. To use my gifts to help others heal the way I healed and continue to heal every, single day.
Healing takes a lot of work
From experience, I’ve learned that every trauma, heartbreak, soul ache, deep disappointment… every painful event leaves a wound in our subconscious. Wounds that have to be healed. Many women like me have layer upon layer of soul wounds that are affecting the quality of our lives.
We’re all unique and healing doesn’t have an established timetable. Some people heal right away. But for others, it’s not a one-and-done deal. It takes intention, time, effort, and putting in the work. It takes treating yourself with kindness and compassion. It takes rebuilding your life and learning to trust again. It takes giving yourself the grace to take as long as you need to gather all of your scattered bits and pieces and radically loving yourself through the process of becoming whole again.
Too many women are staggering under the weight of unprocessed trauma and toxic emotions like guilt, shame, and fear. If you’re that woman, I want you to know you can heal, Sis. If I can do it, you can too. I understand the impact of trauma, loss, and grief. I understand the need for a safe place to process your feelings. I’m here.
Let’s do this. Together.
Certifications And Accreditations
- Spiritual Life Coach
- Usui Reiki Master Healer
- NLP Master Practitioner
- Law of Attraction Coach
- EFT/TFT Practitioner
- Combined Ho’oponopono and EFT Practitioner
- Belief Clearing Practitioner
My coaching healing practice and this site, Taylor Cares is dedicated to helping you heal and create the powerful life you want to live.
There is no greater battle in life than the battle between the parts of you that want to be healed and the parts of you that are comfortable and content remaining broken.
~ Iyanla Vanzant ~